What
are the words that describe who we are? What are those words that describe who
we were created to be and cause our hearts to burn whenever we hear them said
out loud? Think about words like
courageous, powerful, and tough. Think
about names like Hercules, St Patrick, and John Wayne. And what about nicknames like tiger, doctor, and
the boss.
These
words can fuel and drive us. I get a
rush every time someone from our town calls me “Coach.” I have been coaching soccer teams for many
years now; and to be recognized for that gives me a great ego boost. I feel a lot of pride as well when I see my
former players excel at the High School.
So being named “Coach” holds a lot of power over my life. It attaches me to my community and connects
me to the people around me who I care about.
But
these same words can also cause us great shame and guilt. I may be a good soccer coach, but I still have
my bad days. I can still get mad at my
players when they goof off in practice and yell at them. And when those moments of failure come, I
don’t like being known as “Coach”.
The
world will also seek to name us for good and evil purposes. Names are used to build up; but names are
also used to tear us down. And the world
can be so cruel when it lashes out. They
see things in us they don’t like and they will twist and turn them to condemn
us.
And
don’t forget we have an enemy who will use everything in our lives he can to
separate us from God. That’s the rub isn't it? We have three major powers
working against us trying to keep us from being the man we were created to
be.
Deep
inside our hearts is written the origins of creation. The same Creator, who breathed life into the
world, breathed life into us. And we
were created to live in Eden ,
a place of spectacular wonder. We not
only bore the image of our Creator, but we shared life together with Him.
Consider
the number Pi. Most of us know it as
3.14, but some may know it as the string of numbers it is. Never repeating this string of numbers goes
on and on. My son Gabe can recite Pi out
to the 42nd decimal. It is an
amazing little trick, but he practices and he is really great with numbers to
begin with. Scientist using computers
have taken the number out into the trillions without finding any repeating
sequences.
Did
you know that in the number Pi is every phone number, every social security
number, and every birthday? Every number
that could define us is hidden in that simple number we know as 3.14. And just like this number, that only the
Creator could fully know and understand, in your heart has been written an
amazing code that makes you unique and special.
From
the book of Genesis, chapter 1, verses 26 through 31:
“Then
God said, ‘Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them
have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the
cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the
earth.’ So God created man in His own
image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created
them. Then God blessed them, and God
said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have
dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every
living thing that moves on the earth.’
And God said, ‘See, I have given you every herb that yields seed which
is on the face of all the earth, and every tree whose fruit yields seed; to you
it shall be for food. Also, to every
beast of the earth, to every bird of the air, and to everything that creeps on
the earth, in which there is life, I have given every green herb for food’, and
it was so. Then God saw everything that
He had made, and indeed it was very good.
So the evening and the morning were the sixth day.”
We
were created to share in the growth and building of the earth. We were not designed to destroy; we were
designed to bring increase. That is the
joy of Eden . God and Man sharing in the creation process
together. That is our joy as well; God
and us creating a beautiful world full of wonder and grace.
I
was seven years old in 1977. What a
great time to be a kid. Our world was
changing and excitement filled our days.
Sure the adults at that time were facing all sorts of evil and horrors
in the world, but we didn't know. We
were riding bikes and playing “Kick the Can. ” Star Wars came to the theaters and I still
can remember the goose bumps I felt then as I watched the opening crawl scroll
down the screen. Later the film titled
“A New Hope” was not just a title for the movie, but it was the call to me and
my friends. Our world would never be the
same. We had hope for our world and our
future.
I lived
and breathed everything Star Wars. Over
the next six years I followed Luke Skywalker’s journey to manhood. I watched him struggle to find his Man
Card. And ever since then, I have been
walking a path similar to his. Although,
some days I feel more like I am walking the path that Darth Vader was on.
So
much of my life I thought that the way to get my Man Card was to prove myself
worthy by acting like a hero in desperate times. But the truth is that I am not a Jedi Knight;
I am just a kid from Missouri . And I don’t always do great things in the
desperate times. I make mistakes and I
fail. I struggle, as you do, with being
a man in this world.
I
have seen hundreds of movies, but the journey of Luke in this series is one I
relate to the most. I can feel the pull
of something great out there in the universe.
Calling to me and wooing me to come out from the mundane and to discover
the spectacular. I look at the stars at
night and dream of worlds millions of miles away full of wonderful landscapes
and people.
I
say to you that we can find Eden
again. I think too often we get caught
in the science of creation and we loose what is really important. Honestly too me, I don’t care about evolution
versus creation. How God created the
world is not as important too me as why He created the world. Science will never destroy my Creator; but
loosing my connection to the Creator will destroy me.
I
have heard so many times from men saying that they are less than other men because
they don’t hunt, fish or drive a truck.
I have heard others proclaim that the only real heroes are military
men. The concept exists in our world that
if you don’t look or act like Conan, Rocky, or John Wayne, you aren't a real
man.
But,
the truth is you don’t have to fish in order to enjoy the power of a
river. You don’t have to hunt to connect
with animals or the woods. You don’t have
to climb mountains to experience their majesty.
You don’t have to be an astronaut to know the glory of space. And you don’t have to be a caveman to know
the mesmerizing power of fire. We cannot
allow ourselves to buy into the model of manhood that the world sells us. Being sensitive and emotional does not make
you a woman. Loving classical music does
not mean you are feminine. Rambo and
John Wayne are horrible stereotypes and not the true model for manhood.
Remember
that being a man is not about what you do.
Being a real man is about being connected to the one who created us and
living in the purpose He gave us.
As
a boy we can experience all of these things because we view the world as
something to be explored. Luke Skywalker
longed to explore the stars and space. And
as men we are still called to explore the spectacular wonders around us. Oh how I long to discover the beauty, the
power, the glory, and the wonder around me in this world. It doesn't matter if I look like the world’s standard for a man. I feel the power of the
Creator when I stand in His storm and embrace the wind and the rain.